It's in direct conflict with the people pleaser aspect of my personality. My partner and I took part in a marriage seminar/conference thing where as part of it you take a personality quiz -- how your personality is solo, in your marriage, and how your two personalities compliment or conflict. The whole point being not to show how compatible/incompatible you are as a unit, but just to arm yourself with that knowledge so when conflicts *do* arise you have the tools to deal with it.
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